Anon asks: Hi Isaac I wanted to know your honest opinion. I started Tinder and a lot of these guys ask to meet up. There's one I really like but I don't know much about him. If I have sex with him the first date do guys usually disappear after because the chase is over? I know I'm really generalising men into one thing but I'm kinda confused. He asked me to come over and chill (like most guys on Tinder) and so I want to but isn't that asking for a booty call almost? Is it possible to chill at his place without sex?
Hello friend. I think you need to make the distinction between someone who is attempting to get into a relationship with you, and someone who is attempting to score some no-strings-attached bedroom fun.