Matt Damon, Jude Law, and Gwyneth Paltrow in The Talented Mr Ripley*.
Anon asks: Hey Isaac, so my boyfriend and I are going away together this weekend. It's our first time away together, so first time sleeping together. We have only been together for a month. We haven't talked about the whole sex deal yet, but I personally know that I'm not ready for it. I'm not sure what he expects. Do I talk to him about this before we go away? Or during? What if he wants it and I don't, etc? How do I escape that awkward tension when it arises? Your help would be much appreciated!
Hey gidday mate. This would be much easier to answer if I knew how old you were, but I'm going to assume you're old enough to be legally getting intimate and to be going on holiday with your boyfriend. (If you're not, don't do either, por favor.) Okay, so: If this guy is your actual boyfriend as opposed to some dude you're just getting to know, you should be able to have a conversation with him about what both of your expectations are with regards to sex.